If you only refrain from a course of conduct provided others do I'd agree it has little to do with virtue.
And again, like Job, I hadn't reaped what I'd sown. You began the practice you decried as "gutless" (see my last and quote/link). And when it was pointed out you owned it like a champ moved the goalposts ever so slightly. You can do better than this and do better in difference than name calling and not crediting friends with an understanding of their own mind. I gave you that on empathy.
And again, like Job, I hadn't reaped what I'd sown. You began the practice you decried as "gutless" (see my last and quote/link). And when it was pointed out you owned it like a champ moved the goalposts ever so slightly. You can do better than this and do better in difference than name calling and not crediting friends with an understanding of their own mind. I gave you that on empathy.