Yes, I understood that too. I'm probably somewhere between you two on this issue. He really does have a 'for me' or 'against me' mentality on this. In one sense I agree, No Compromise on God's standards. At the same time, I have to somehow love my gay loved ones to Christ. It probably isn't an issue, one I never see and the other rarely so it isn't like I'm close to them, but I am praying for one's mother to bring Christ to her and am praying the other hears the right things. He was raped as a 3 and 4 year old by a man He has homosexual issues because of it, not born this way.