God made provision under the law for divorce. This was put in place because of the sinfulness of mankind.
Jesus explained why God allowed divorce.
19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Matthew 19:8
Christ went on to say that whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery and causes his wife to also commit adultery, unless, the wife has already commited adultery thru fornication.
19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Matthew 19:9
The provision for divorce in Deuteronomy 24 permitted divorce if a woman commited uncleanness, which included adultery and fornication. Verse 2 even allows a wife who is divorced to remarry. In Luke 16:18 the new husband who would marry the wife that was divorced would be commiting adultery.
24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
24:2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
24:3 And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
24:4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. Deuteronomy 24:1-4
Christ was not applying Deuteronomy 24 in allowing divorce because the wife commited fornication in Matthew 19. Rather than sanctioning divorce, He was detailing the consequences of divorce. Divorce compounds and generates adultery.
Both Deuteronomy 24:4 and Jeremiah 3:1 prohibit taking a wife back again after divorcing her.
3:1 They say, If a man put away his wife, and she go from him, and become another man's, shall he return unto her again? shall not that land be greatly polluted? but thou hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet return again to me, saith the LORD. Jeremiah 3:1
God gave Israel a bill of divorce because of her unfaithfulness. I see the main emphasis in Jeremiah 3:1 as not being the fact that he divorced Israel, but rather that thru grace and mercy He took her back, which was prohibited.
3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also. Jeremiah 3:8
It should be noted that in Jeremiah 3:14 God says he is married to the backsliding children. He will fulfill his promises and covenant to Israel.
3:14 Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion: Jeremiah 3:14
It must be noted that all of this is under the law.
7:1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? Romans 7:1
The Body of Christ, the church, is not under the law but under grace. Love fulfills the law. Love does not commit adultery. Love does not initiate divorce. Love bears all things. Love causes no harm. Love extends to people who fail, who divorce. Love encourages faithfulness in a new marriage of divorced people.
We love because He loved us.
If you don't know this love, believe the gospel:
This is the gospel by which we are saved.
15:1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
15:3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
15:4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
1 Corinthians 15
We are all sinners who can not save ourselves.
Christ died for our sins; He was our substitute, He paid the full penalty and debt for our sin by his blood sacrifice.
He was buried.
He rose again for our justification and forgiveness of all our sin. He gives us His righteousness and eternal life.
All we have to do is believe the gospel.
Jesus explained why God allowed divorce.
19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Matthew 19:8
Christ went on to say that whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery and causes his wife to also commit adultery, unless, the wife has already commited adultery thru fornication.
19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Matthew 19:9
The provision for divorce in Deuteronomy 24 permitted divorce if a woman commited uncleanness, which included adultery and fornication. Verse 2 even allows a wife who is divorced to remarry. In Luke 16:18 the new husband who would marry the wife that was divorced would be commiting adultery.
24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
24:2 And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
24:3 And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
24:4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. Deuteronomy 24:1-4
Christ was not applying Deuteronomy 24 in allowing divorce because the wife commited fornication in Matthew 19. Rather than sanctioning divorce, He was detailing the consequences of divorce. Divorce compounds and generates adultery.
Both Deuteronomy 24:4 and Jeremiah 3:1 prohibit taking a wife back again after divorcing her.
3:1 They say, If a man put away his wife, and she go from him, and become another man's, shall he return unto her again? shall not that land be greatly polluted? but thou hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet return again to me, saith the LORD. Jeremiah 3:1
God gave Israel a bill of divorce because of her unfaithfulness. I see the main emphasis in Jeremiah 3:1 as not being the fact that he divorced Israel, but rather that thru grace and mercy He took her back, which was prohibited.
3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also. Jeremiah 3:8
It should be noted that in Jeremiah 3:14 God says he is married to the backsliding children. He will fulfill his promises and covenant to Israel.
3:14 Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion: Jeremiah 3:14
It must be noted that all of this is under the law.
7:1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? Romans 7:1
The Body of Christ, the church, is not under the law but under grace. Love fulfills the law. Love does not commit adultery. Love does not initiate divorce. Love bears all things. Love causes no harm. Love extends to people who fail, who divorce. Love encourages faithfulness in a new marriage of divorced people.
We love because He loved us.
If you don't know this love, believe the gospel:
This is the gospel by which we are saved.
15:1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
15:3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
15:4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
1 Corinthians 15
We are all sinners who can not save ourselves.
Christ died for our sins; He was our substitute, He paid the full penalty and debt for our sin by his blood sacrifice.
He was buried.
He rose again for our justification and forgiveness of all our sin. He gives us His righteousness and eternal life.
All we have to do is believe the gospel.