Oh, I definitely agree with the idea that God is in control.
Believing that God has authority to judge is not the same as believing that He is in control.
In the first place, love is the single most important thing according to the scriptures, so much so that God is said to be love. This should be our primary lens when interpreting things.
Whose definition of love are we using? Yours? The guy who thinks God would not be loving to create someone knowing that they will end up in Hell? The guy who thinks God would not be loving to judge people for failing to perfectly keep the law, as no one is perfect? The guy who thinks God would not be loving to create any sort of Hell, as annihilation seems nicer?
Calvinists believe that the Bible sets the only valid definition of “love.” And that definition won't necessarily square with your natural expectations or humanistic definition of love.
However, I've seen Calvinists even go so far as to say that sin is God's will! Talk about blasphemy - and the root of this is their focus on authority before all else. They can't conceive that someone could disobey God's will.
There are different meanings for God's will. Take some of the verses I posted:
Samson was disobeying God's will to marry only within God's people to avoid being led astray by foreign gods. He was disobeying his parents and acting lustfully and unwisely. His parents were right from a moral standpoint – which is why the Spirit moves the author to clarify that God is still accomplishing what He intends.
Isa53:10Yet it pleased the Lord to bruise Him... It doesn't mean it made God giddy to ordain the suffering of His Son, but it does mean that it was His will for the story to play out that way. The Jewish leadership was responsible to obey God's commands to judge justly and condemn perjury that convicts the innocent – that is God's moral will. But He intended that His Son be numbered among the transgressors and put to death by wicked men – that was His sovereign will.
there are more than enough scriptures to demonstrate the importance of our own freewill with regards our relation to God and to salvation. I posted a good one above from Deuteronomy 30.
You confuse commands that demand a responsibility to obey with the correspondent ability to obey:
http://theologyonline.com/showthrea...at-his-Son-is-a-failure&p=5040121#post5040121
Good choice to start your quote that far into the chapter, though. Had you started with v1, it would have been clear that their future disobedience (being driven from a land which they had yet to enter) was a stone-cold lock.
Deut30:1 “Now it shall come to pass, when all these things come upon you, the blessing and the curse which I have set before you, and you call them to mind among all the nations
where the Lord your God drives you...
Furthermore, the all important love cannot exist without freewill. For love to exist, the possibility of sin must exist as well - and to the same degree.
Where did you get this gem? I can't help but notice there's not a scripture reference. “Chicken Soup for the Soul” or some similar authority?
There will be no sin in Heaven (1 John 3:2; Rev21:27). There will be love in Heaven. You might need to pull another fortune cookie off the buffet...
First off, let me ask you how you address the scripture that says that God desires that all be saved?
Calvinists have been addressing this stuff for hundreds of years, so why not? Here is some more:
http://theologyonline.com/showthrea...uot-Predestination-quot&p=5056755#post5056755
http://theologyonline.com/showthrea...t-WORLD-quot&p=5035486&viewfull=1#post5035486
http://theologyonline.com/showthrea...at-his-Son-is-a-failure&p=5043480#post5043480
And yet, no Calvinist I've seen has addressed the question: what if it is God's will that we choose?
If the Bible taught that man has free will, Calvinists would happily give up that systematic view of the Bible and take all the credit that would be rightfully ours. But the Bible speaks of a God who has to draw His people to Himself because no one seeks Him and everyone turns and goes their own way. God's choice is ultimately foundational:
1Cor1:26-30 For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. 27 But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; 28 and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, 29 that no flesh should glory in His presence. 30
But of Him you are in Christ Jesus...