Advice for Kim in Kentucky

Interplanner

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I understand the intention of the city clerk who has been jailed in Kentucky for not granting same sex marriage licenses. But we need to size up things here and take a 200 year look.

If anyone here at TOL knows how to get this message to her, I think we can save her some grief. I will be trying Huckabee's hashtag shortly.

In the mid 1800s there were evangelical pastors who preached against any state authority over marriage at all. They warned that it would lead to people with completely disparate views of life having control over who would and would not marry and divorce. Voila.

All we have from Genesis is the verb 'to cleve' or to join one's partner (from the other gender) and this is a belief of the church. But more exactly, it is a belief that can only be practiced by those with all the beliefs of Genesis: that God created this world and mankind; that this is a real space and time event, and that we exist in real space and time and history after it when we marry; that sin has come and created horrible situations if God's commands are neglected; that sex belongs only in a marriage.

To most of us (98.5% I think) it would seem completely obvious that these things are just as much foundational to our country as is the opening line of the Constitution about being endowed by our Creator with inalienable rights. But for now we have a culture which is trying to leverage anything it can against these beliefs. So the 1.5% is to be treated identically to the 98.5%. This will not change without a disaster that makes people take stock.

Therefore it is churches that need to practice marriage as Genesis sees it (so long as the particular church does) so that it is that community of people who are witnessing and validating it. The long view of the evangelical pastors of the 1800s is right. It is not something that should be practiced by the state.

Kim in Kentucky should resign on the basis of the realization of this, not try to continue in that confused context. If she makes her announcement on this basis, she won't be jeered at so much, and she will have the opportunity to validate the cluster or suite of concepts which reinforce marriage. A house divided cannot stand. "The house" used to be united on these things, but secularism has decided to attack it.

One of secularism's tactics is to ridicule one item by itself. Any discussion of marriage is not a one-item discussion, but is connected to the whole fabric of the Bible. One ABC news last night, this was shown to be true when the homosexual person retorted to Kim about God's judgement that he didn't think there was any. Exactly. But the same mentality of single-item thinking shows when an "evangelical" homosexual says that homosexuality is completely compatible with Christ's teaching. That's just more shredded fabric.

We are not trying to salvage one strand at a time. The only thing we have to say as Christians is that the whole fabric stands as one piece or else is not Christian, is not the Biblical message. Avoid those circumstances where this cannot be said. A marriage license clerk in a bezerk milieu is not one.
 

jamie

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Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves. (Romans 13:1-2 NKJV)​
 

HisServant

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Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves. (Romans 13:1-2 NKJV)​

Bingo... she is giving Jesus a black eye.

We can affect change in this country through our behavior and our vote.... civil disobedience should not be in our repertoire.
 

ok doser

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200 years ago, Christians in the forefront of the abolition movement would have disagreed with you.
 

Interplanner

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Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves. (Romans 13:1-2 NKJV)​


However, the term 'authority' there has been shown to be the office, not the person. The person may be quite off. That is why in Acts 26 Paul was appealing to Roman admin to be righteous and self-controlled. But he did not tear down the office, which is what Judaism's zealots wanted to do. Paul was basically being interviewed because he used to be a leader in Judaism and Roman admin needed to know what was the difference now.

Commenting on our constitution some of the signators said "This document cannot work unless the populace is godly and virtuous to some degree; in fact, it may even damage the country if they are not."

My intention in this post is that our effort should be spent on marriages where the whole fabric of God's truth is known, discussed, respected, instead of one bit piece by itself. With either type of homosexual, you are dealing with a shredded fabric, and THAT is what needs to be discussed, not the end-decision about marriage. The ones I know won't discuss, and so I have nothing else to say to them until they do.

You have to speak to the first issue first. You can't speak to the tenth issue first.

We might even want to spend our time on a petition that removes the authority to do marriages from states, but even better would be to just have churches do them. Most churches I know already don't do them in the building or on the grounds itself because homosexuals would ask to do it specifically against the beliefs of that church to 'expose' and 'humiliate' them.
 

Interplanner

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Bingo... she is giving Jesus a black eye.

We can affect change in this country through our behavior and our vote.... civil disobedience should not be in our repertoire.



Civil disobedience should be our response if the police arrive at a church and say that it can't do any weddings, on or off premises, unless it also does homosexual weddings.

The June 30 SCOTUS ruling has a leading paragraph that says that marriage beliefs of traditional institutions are to be respected and practiced by those members; ie, the ruling is adding SS marriage alongside, not in place of, MF marriage. That is why if police arrived to enforce above, they would be wrong to do so. And civil disobedience should be our response.

There are many accusations against police today; why couldn't a homosexual policeman show up in a flurry and think he has the authority to restrict what you do in your home or at another site?

Rom 13 is not about the person; it is about the office. A given person in authority can be a complete jerk, and the rule of law is not that person's law or that person's way of seeing the law, but only the law.

I wouldn't be surprised if many readers here don't know the 'alongside' paragraph is in the Jun 30 SCOTUS decision.
 

Town Heretic

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Interesting postings Int, but you won't remove the state from marriage for practical reasons. First, people enjoy the secular benefits of coupling their religious ceremony with state recognition. Secondly, and more importantly, marriage is a contract the demise of which will necessarily bring the state into play, as the acrimonious dissolution inevitably involves issues of property and equitable distribution thereof, and decisions relating to the welfare of minors.

Or, I think the horse has left that barn and what Christians can do about their vows and marriage is make it a thing of witness. No matter what the state says about the institution our own uniting before God is ours to maintain and our understanding and appreciation of its nature shouldn't be impinged upon by anything outside of our faith.
 

chrysostom

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her name is on the license
and
for religious reasons she does not want her name on the license for a same sex marriage
if
you don't understand that
it is because you are already okay with same sex marriage
and
should have the guts to admit it
 

HisServant

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Civil disobedience should be our response if the police arrive at a church and say that it can't do any weddings, on or off premises, unless it also does homosexual weddings.

The June 30 SCOTUS ruling has a leading paragraph that says that marriage beliefs of traditional institutions are to be respected and practiced by those members; ie, the ruling is adding SS marriage alongside, not in place of, MF marriage. That is why if police arrived to enforce above, they would be wrong to do so. And civil disobedience should be our response.

There are many accusations against police today; why couldn't a homosexual policeman show up in a flurry and think he has the authority to restrict what you do in your home or at another site?

Rom 13 is not about the person; it is about the office. A given person in authority can be a complete jerk, and the rule of law is not that person's law or that person's way of seeing the law, but only the law.

I wouldn't be surprised if many readers here don't know the 'alongside' paragraph is in the Jun 30 SCOTUS decision.

If they would show up at a church and do that, our redress is through the courts... not through civil disobedience.
 

Rusha

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her name is on the license
and
for religious reasons she does not want her name on the license for a same sex marriage
if
you don't understand that
it is because you are already okay with same sex marriage
and
should have the guts to admit it

She should stand by her convictions ... which doesn't mean she should be allowed to remain in her position.
 

chrysostom

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She should stand by her convictions ... which doesn't mean she should be allowed to remain in her position.

their are only three options

she can resign but she won't as long as her name is on the license
they can impeach her
they can put her in jail

I don't think they can take her name off the license without impeaching her first
 

Interplanner

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If they would show up at a church and do that, our redress is through the courts... not through civil disobedience.


Exactly but immediately. Ie, by refusing arrest until he gets reinforcements there, his buddies will have to check and see if a judge will actually let them do a mass arrest (it takes bussing and a reallocation of personnel). When they hear that the 2nd item in the SCOTUS decision was the tolerance of the other traditions, they'll likely step back.

Civil disobedience does not mean anything violent done, but that you make the police force physically pick you up and move you. Passive resistance. I Pet 3:20.

Homosexuals are 1.5% of our population. The best thing that could happen would be for one of them to blow his cool on this and get the whole bunch in trouble for ignorance about what the 'alongside' part of SCOTUS actually said.

Among the homosexual population, there are already many who disdain the decision and again those who disdain the persecution of Christian wedding businesses that is going on. All the people in the Kennewick incident were friends; it was the WA AG who insisted on damaging the business!

The local admin in Kentucky has embarrassed itself by putting Kim in jail instead of firing her. I have no idea why--except to try to humiliate.
 

PureX

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Human beings tend to pair-bond regardless of their religious beliefs. So the idea that marriage should only be a religious practice is unreasonably narrow and basically unworkable. And in our modern complex and litigious society, pair-bonding also now involves individual rights, property, and implied and stated responsibilities that have to be overseen by the mechanisms of government (as that is what government is for). So again, the idea that marriage should only be a religious practice is both unreasonable and unworkable.

I agree that there is a difference between the religious tradition of "marriage" and modern pair-bonding. Which may require a separate ceremony and compact to express. But trying to use that subset of human pair-bonding to exclude all other examples of it is, again, just unreasonable and unworkable. The solution will have to be that the religious compact of marriage be something people do in addition to the modern legal compact associated with pair-bonding, if they so desire.
 

HisServant

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This country is about individual rights... your 'pair bonding' beliefs are incompatible with that.... so is the institution of marriage we have in this country.

When 50% of these same sex marriages end in divorce.. like all marriages, I think they will be ruing the day that same sex marriage was made legal.... because divorce laws in this country are so unfair its unbelievable.
 

1Mind1Spirit

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and yet no politicians are in jail yet for making sanctuary cities or making pot legal in direct opposition to federal law.

Which brings up the question.....

What Federal law has she broken?

There is no Federal law either way on the matter.

So just exactly how did the supreme court get into this anyhow?
 
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